Real Real Weddings

 

 Reality check. A lot of people in the wedding biz (for the most part) still don't get it. The messages are the same--here's this beautiful image/ idea/ product/ venue/ whatever...that you can't afford. That was created by the stylist on the shoot that took place in the forest in the state that you don't live in. But isn't it pretty? Not helpful if you've got a budget and a time-line to plan your wedding and get on with your life. This is just one of the ways the wedding planning process becomes your own personal torture chamber. I am convinced that there are about two brides out there who are "totally crazy about all things wedding and have been dreaming about this moment since they were a little girl." Maybe more than two, but the majority of women and men getting married are more interested in getting on with their lives, moving their stuff, combining households, maybe changing names, and whatever else is on the list. Seriously, this is the market. But yet--these are the people who feel the most left out of the process. So if anyone out there is listening, hello! I'm still here. And I still want to help. Even though I am not, have never been, probably never will be totally crazy about weddings. I just think you can have a beautiful wedding, life, and world--all at the same time. Consider this your one stop shop for all things real. Get set, get ready, let's go!

xo

Photo Source: Bonzie, purveyor of bespoke wedding gowns. I suggest you check her out.

Comments

[Emily]

Dana (Broke Ass Bride)
Thanks for your support--being loud and proud can be a little daunting but it feels oh so good when you get positive feedback--I feel like it's important for all of us to "keep it real."
Emily

[Emily]

Dear TSW,
I love the name of your blog--and really appreciate your comment. Gland to know their are more of us out there!
Emily

[Emily]

Becca,
I hear you. I just can't understand why there's such a disconnect between the wedding business and the wedding customer. Hopefully that will change more and more in the future!
Thanks so much for commenting.
Emily

[The Broke-Ass Bride]

Yes! This is exactly the approach we took when designing our wedding! It was about starting a new life, not just making one perfect day! We all need more of this good sense in our weddings - I love it!

[The Thirty-Something Bride]

You said it sister! I do my best to keep this sentiment in tact evey day!